Everyone wants to have a perfect couple for their life. They have their own requierments of a good spouse. Before deciding someone who will be their couple, people should know their own personality and their future husband's or wife's. People have to compare their good personality and even their bad personality. People face the confuseness how to choose the best spouse. Is it better to marry someone who is similliar to them, or someone who is different from them.
To me, it is better to marry someone who is different from me. To make a serious relationship with someone, getting married, there are lots of things that we have to pay attention to. Sometimes, I realize that I am a selfish person. I do not like being criticized. So, If someone disagrees with my decision or my opinion, I am going to get angry with them. Based on my personality, I had better marry someone who is diffrent from me. It could be a mess if I have a spouse with the same personality, selfish. If I marry someone who is very patient, I will be ashamed with what I have done. After that time, I will try to be a nice guy, because she is very polite and patient to me. It will be diffrent if I choose someone who has similliar personality with me. It will create a divorce someday. Everyone wants to be a winner! It is very dangerous for a relationship.
If we are wondering to have a nice family, it is better for us to choose a spouse with diffrent personality. That means their personality should be better than us. People will have their happiness if they get someone who could understand their personality and cover their bad one.
Jimmi
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